Thursday, November 6, 2008

Please Welcome Author...Linda Ambrosia!!

Violence in Romance Fiction

by Linda Ambrosia

Knowing this is a hot-button topic, I certainly hope I don't offend anyone. Please keep in mind I'm still technically a "nobody." I'm just a little granny with no more than two e-books and a short story to my name thus far, so I'm scarcely an "authority" on this matter. My views are from the heart, but not meant to be considered "dogma." (And I'd like to thank Ms. Gracen for allowing me the opportunity to express myself here.)

Now, I hide behind a pen name for a number of reasons. Among them is that romance fiction as a whole still has a bad reputation among "non-believers." Many people think it's because of all the sex in romantic books. But as my Husband has pointed out to me, that's ludicrous, because our whole society is overloaded with sex, even in TV commercials.

What really scares people about romance books is that they often appear to advocate violence toward women. This more true of the romance novels of the 1970s and 1980s than now, but there are still some romances published today that include such violence, ranging from slaps to gunplay to rapes.

Let me put one thing right on the line: All three of my published works (including "Gulliver's Children," a book written with Husband) contain violence. My short story, for example, concludes with two women trying to kill each other on a sinking ship in the middle of a storm. Yet not a single review I've had so far has even mentioned the violent content of my work.

So why haven't any of my reviewers been upset? I strongly suspect because me and Husband use "stylized violence," which doesn't have the same impact on the human brain that more graphic material does. Also, both my novels have strong themes that are against the abuse of women, so it's very clear where I stand on this matter. I'd like to share this technique with you by going down the elements that tend to upset readers of romance books--and show how they could be written differently.

The number one culprits in romance's bad reputation are the old "bodice ripper" rapist-as-hero novels. (Such books were especially prevalent in the 1970s.) Now, I'm not at all sure if books like this are still being published. Husband tells me the majority of publishing houses forbid such storylines these days, but there may still be some places that publish them. I must confess ignorance here.

Regardless, I cannot and never will write such a book. They go against my moral and religious beliefs.

So I really have nothing to advise the writers of such novels, except this: If you're promoting such material, please let readers know ahead of time what to expect. In the past, a frequent gripe I heard from Husband was how publishers would slip rape scenes into books that have sweet-looking covers. This was often done in the eighties and nineties. Sometimes books would be advertised as wholesome only to have a "bodice ripper" content.

How a book is marketed is a combined effort between writers and publishers. So I can only advise them in this regard: Be honest with your readers. My own publisher for Firedrakes Weyr, bless her heart, put a warning about the violence in my Young Adult science fiction novel "Gulliver's Children" on the buy page--and I'm careful in my promos to warn readers that my book contains violent material and occasional strong language.

Now, speaking of "Gulliver's Children," several times in the second half of the book, there's references made to both rape and cannibalism. There's a scene where the heroine foils a rape attempt by tossing a bucket of urine in a bad guy's face. Another bad guy boasts of how he raped a woman in the past. And it's strongly hinted that members of an evil clan in the book are cannibals.

However, there's not one page that shows either rape or cannibalism. These things are either kept "off-screen" or stopped by the resourceful heroine. What's more, all the "bad things" in the book are done only by the "bad guys," and they are clearly designated "bad things." By utilizing "stylized violence," you don't have to describe everything in detail, and it's clear who's "good" and who's "bad."

Which brings up another point: If a book says that "rape is bad," then what harm is there in describing it? Well, for one, you automatically hurt your credibility by going graphic. It makes it look like you threw the rape scene in just for entertainment value--which smarts of hypocrisy, regardless of the writer's intention. You can't always get away with things by saying "Well, the bad guy did it."

Key to "stylized violence" is that suggestion can be more effective than description. Say, for example, you show a man running out of an alleyway. Then some cop/hero/nurse (whatever) comes along and finds a bruised young lady with a ripped blouse sitting in the alley crying, and through her tears she reveals that she's just been raped, there's no need for description. It can be just as emotional without resorting to showing the deed--depending, of course, on the skills of the writer.

There are other forms of violence that, with a little work, can be handled with good taste. In "Gulliver's Children," we have a sequence in which the heroine is branded on the back. To take the sting out of this episode, we had the heroine (who's an alien from another planet) turn the tables on her captors by suddenly reverting to her true alien self. Eyes bugging, roaring and displaying her fangs, she so frightens her enemies that they cring from her in fear. Such a technique kept the excitement level high without making the heroine look like a "helpless victim."

Make no mistake, writing about violence of any sort, especially toward women, is a tricky business. It's hard to depict without being misunderstood or "crossing the line" into bad taste. But with a little extra effort, it can be done in such a way that women characters are treated respectfully.

Linda Ambrosia, Writer of Young Adult Fiction


Disclaimer (because we don't have a choice): The views expressed by the guest blogger do not necessarily reflect those of The Deadly Vixens.

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Desirée Lee said...

Very good point Linda!

I too write violent scenes into my books, particularly the paranormal ones. IMHO violence adds a striking conflict and can help as a plot-driver.

When I send my books out for reviews, I try to always (where possible) put in a disclaimer. Some review sites ask up front if there is any "questionable" material. I feel it is best to be honest about that. Not everybody likes to read a book with violence. I'd much rather have my book picked up by a reviewer who is not going to deride it for the violent content rather than offend someone.

I haven't included a rape scene in a book yet, but I do have an attempted rape scene in one of my stories. The villain attempts to rape the heroine. I state that up front to the reviewers. So far that book has garnered very favorable reviews so I guess the scene was not a squick for those reviewers.

I too am turned off by the rapist-turned-hero. Forced seduction is a fine line. Out and out rape is not something that turns me on.

You can't please all the people all the time. There are undoubtedly readers out there who are averse to violence in stories. That's their prerogative. I think a polite warning is sufficient (as you said your publisher states on the buy page). If the reader does not heed the warning, there's not much you can do about that. Their fault for ignoring the sign, not yours for writing the scene.

Carpe Noctem,

Desirée Lee
Putting the Romance Back in Necromancy

Pheebles said...

Very good points, Linda. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and methods with us.

Carol Ann said...

Great post, Linda. We've come a long way from those bodice rippers of the 70's. Most romance novels of today are more true to life with strong heroines who save themselves. That's what I try to adhere to in my romantic suspense books.

Gracen Miller said...

Thanks for guest blogging with us, Linda! This was a very thought provoking topic and I enjoyed it. I've read some of those bodice rippers you're referring too, before romance expanded into what it is today.

I used violence in The Devil's Den, but like you, my editor placed a warning on it. I know my book is not for everyone and I respect that. However, while I used violence in the first book, in my second book--the one currently in my publishers hand awaiting a yes or no response--refers to a rape off scene. It is a pivotal point in the book, but it is only talked about and never shown. The difference between the books, the first one was about a vampire, while the second one has no paranormal elements. I like to think my first book was a blend between romance and horror.

I didn't throw the violence in the first book as pure entertainment value, but because I wanted to show the level of debasement my vampire had been lowered to. He had not a care in the world for the value of life until my heroine came into the picture. Maybe I could have shown how far he had sunk without it, but I don't believe it would have been as effective. Maybe a better writer could have pulled it off, but I don't think I could have.

That said, I do agree though that every book does not call for violence against women at all. Me personally, I like dark, paranormal romances, so there's always some level of violence. It doesn't have to involve rape though.

Thanks again for guest blogging! I really enjoyed this topic. I've been told before by someone I know that they can't tolerate romances because of all the sex. I chuckled thinking there was a double standard in our world. It's okay to watch television or movies with in-your-face sex, but it's trashy to read a romance book. Ugh!

Elaine Cantrell said...

Hi, Linda,

It isn't just in books you find violence against women. Turn on the TV or go to a movie. It's there too, and it sets a terrible example for everyone.

Debby said...

I enjoyed reading your point of view and agree with manythings you said. I am not going to go and look for one of your books.

ddurance said...

It's interesting what you have to say about violence in romance. You have to be careful because you will be remembered and all too often judged for what you write and how you write it. There are lines though and sometimes they're very thin.


Gracen Miller said...

I plugged all the names into list randomizer and it picked a winner.

And the winner is....drum rolllllll......PHEEBLES!

Please e-mail me at to receive your e-book, Gulliver's Children, by Linda Ambrosia!!

Gracen Miller said...

I plugged all the names into list randomizer and it picked a winner.

And the winner is....drum rolllllll......PHEEBLES!

Please e-mail me at to receive your e-book, Gulliver's Children, by Linda Ambrosia!!